Boyfriend laughed at me so I thought the chest did not develop the shadow of desire "wave" Tao turbulent
Letters from friends:
Maid:
Hello. I am 25 years old, in the eyes of their parents has come to the talk of marriage age. My boyfriend big 2 years old, in with the character I am very fit, with a fortune teller's words, we are "consistent with God", rarely divided. His good character, I take care of caring at the same time and very single-minded, never philandering. Material, steady my work is self-sufficient, all models also have a small house, and although he no house no car, but work hard to make progress, salaries are also much higher than I, we have a really good future expectations and vision.
The problem lies in my own body. My height, are considered more superior appearance, the only problem is that the chest is not full, a "Pacific Princess" family, child did not realize this, from the university, the mother will begin to intentionally or unintentionally, to bring this thing, asked me to eat more food breast, breast enhancement products and even bought me, but I did not mind too much, but I also never wear a low chest of clothes, and even rarely go swimming, but also shy in front of the same sex will be exposed to the body. And living with her boyfriend until after, although he did not express dissatisfaction with my body, but my heart always so the slightest anxiety and panic. I have seen his ex-girlfriend pictures, see her hot body after I fought with the one, in fact, he did not wrong or done anything wrong, but my self-esteem in the faint cause trouble, I might have wanted to By this way, to let him fight, said he does not mind my body.
A few days ago, said he was joking when I grow up in the chest as a child, I was on the shortness of breath, and had a big fight with him, and said, "If you are not satisfied with it as early as possible to find someone else on" The so, although he has repeatedly apologized afterwards, but my heart still think this is a shadow of my friends tried to persuade me that he was an inadvertent mistake, just casually joke, that I too seriously, but I think with him even if I do not care about this , after affectionate when I always thought this thing and that is no way for us to forget the nightmare, since he has come to open a joke, it shows that he still would not mind the body, indeed, which men do not like before convex after Alice's woman? Maybe now he loves me to figure the problem because the second set, then get married after that? 10 years later? When he went to the ground and will not abandon me to build it?
Now I am really desperate, I think most men are like busty girl right, at least, is the development of a normal girl. I like that, "Pacific Princess" do about it? I really love him, now do not know what else he can not face, or face their own. I even thought to do chest surgery, but also feel that this is not a real solution.
Maid, please tell me, in the end how to overcome this inferiority feelings in the end I should or should not forgive her boyfriend it? Panfu!
Good margin century Maid reply:
You're right, which men do not like lots of flesh woman? If a man says he does not like non-woman "rough", which can be concluded is hypocrisy.
The question is, how one is perfect it? Your chest is not big enough trouble, the other woman's troubles may not handsome face, may be not high culture, it may be hard to make money and work less, may be chronic carriers of hepatitis, there may be a refractory body odor ... ... because there are shortcomings, not worth people love it? I appreciate Mr. Yang Jiang's words: If their loved ones lover had infectious diseases, will find this terrible disease no longer odious, but a little taste of the familiar kind.
With love, infectious diseases are not hateful, not to mention the flat chest?
You choose your boyfriend now, take care of you considerate, loyal gentle, which shows: for him, your appearance, personality, knowledge, fun, and so together, enough to make him love you, and do not care about you build on the shortcomings.
You are worried about: " Maybe now he loves me to figure the problem because the second set, then married after that? 10 years later? his body to the ground when the will to abandon me? "In fact, whether it is a big chest woman or a small chest of a woman, can not guarantee a person will always love yourself. You hope that he will always love you, you should always worthy of love.
You understand that the crux of the problem is not your boyfriend, but in your inferiority complex. Flat chest may not destroy the love, but low self-esteem, anxiety and suspicion but it may destroy love.
My suggestion is that once broached with her boyfriend, telling him: "I do mind you that I have developed a bad chest, I feel a shadow, if you love me, please help me to overcome the shadow." Followed by , see a psychiatrist, seek professional help.
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